“Only If you want too.”
“I don’t want to burden you with my heartache.”
“Well go on, I am listening.”
“I have my moments, my ups and downs. Sometimes I feel well or ok and sometimes I am just depressed. It drives me crazy, Andy. There are times that I just know that I am losing it. You know what annoys me the most. Everyone around me is telling me to go out and have a social life. To pick up my life and start dating. I should prove Karan what a scumbag he has been and what he is missing out on.” She paused and looked outside. “I know they mean well, but why should I prove that piece of, well you know what I wanted to say. Deep down I know that I should move on. I see women around me who are divorced and live a happy live. What is wrong with me?
Heart
It still feels like my heart is cut into pieces. I am waiting for my heart to heal. Will it heal ever? Why do people cheat? This all frustrates me so much since I know there are no answers to these questions and I do know that I am tormenting myself.”
Trisha pouted her mouth and moved her lips. “My friends and family keep telling me that it has been two years already. That I should get over it, since he is getting on with his life. But I don’t care about him, I care about me.”
Andy listened to Trisha and was silent for a few moments. “Do you want to heal, Trisha? To me it seems that you are stuck in feeling sorry for yourself and you don’t know how to let go of that feeling. Life is never easy and you cannot compare your life to others. You are Trisha, a unique person. ”I think that you have to sort your feelings out, maybe talk to a therapist?”
Therapy
“I considered going into therapy, but I was hoping to fix things myself.”
Andy nodded his head. “Sometimes we must set our ego aside and do what we know is good for us.”
“I know. I keep telling myself that.”
“Have you considered taking up a hobby? Take it step by step, don’t overdo it. Go to the gym. Maybe even a sewing classes or a baking class. No strings attached type of activities. You don’t need to talk with these people, if you don’t want to.” He continued in a naughty voice “And if you really want to be bold…you should take a salsa class for singles.”
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